For most of the past week,
the question that has been perpetually asked by newscasters and interviewers
has been “What are you thankful for?” My list is rather lengthy: a wife,
daughter, family, good job, nice house, wonderful friends, fun hobbies, and a God
who loves me enough to die and rise again for me.
Included in that list are
many of the people I’ve encountered along my journey of life. Some of whom I
met while within some of its darker chapters. People who taught me a very important
lesson about life and about who people really are.
The truth of the matter is,
because of the reality of sin, each of us is born with a hunger within us.
Sometimes, we are blessed to find the answer to that hunger by embracing a
relationship with Jesus Christ. Other times, that hunger is made worse by
catastrophe and tragedy. I have met so many souls who are spending their lives
either running away from something or desperately trying to fill that void
within. Sometimes, they’re trying to do both.
I can relate well to those
who are running away, because I’ve been there myself. When I shared my
testimony with you all last week, I mentioned that during my college years that
I was angry with God for taking away my dreams. I was running away from God, trying
to drive him out of my life by living a lifestyle of partying and debauchery.
I wasn’t alone. There were
others trying to run away from things too. One young woman I knew was a wild
girl, drank, smoked pot, slept around, you name it. I dated her for a time and
in a single moment of surprising honesty, she admitted
to me that she had been raped at age 14. She told me that since she was
“already ruined,” what did it matter now what she did? Every substance she
consumed, every person she brought home with her was one more attempt to help
her forget, to help her run away from the pain of that horrible event.
Another friend, child of
divorce, spent his childhood being traded between his parent’s new families,
each one doing their best to use him as a weapon against the other. He was
looking for acceptance, love, affection, all the things he’d never felt from
his family.
Still another
rages at the world. All of his troubles are the cause of someone else.
The black people did this to him, the Latinos that, and those darn liberals. He
festers in his hatred and his bigotry, blaming others for the hurt and the
emptiness within.
The fact that these and all
the others like them will not find the answers they seek in the directions they
have gone goes without saying. They’re trying to fill a God-shaped hole with
something other than God himself: anger, drugs, sex, power, money,
whatever. People like them are the source of much hurt and evil in the world
themselves, but the truth is they are not evil. They’re lost. They’re hurting,
and they’re lashing out and acting out the only way they know how.
The Gospel lesson from Mark
once again repeats the call from Jesus for us to keep awake. As I said before,
that is a call to diligence, a call to embrace the
work that God has set before us to transform the world and lives of the people
we encounter every day. But Mark puts a slightly different spin on the story,
including a call from Jesus to be mindful of signs and indicators.
His example is a good one. A
fig tree becoming tender and putting forth leaves is indicative of changing
seasons. Winter is becoming spring. Spring is becoming summer. But is a man
consumed by anger? What is within them that drives
their fits of rage and hatred? What is a woman drowning her sorrows in
substance abuse? What is it within her that has driven her to the bottom of a
bottle? No one chooses those things without reason.
People like this are all
around us every day, even here in
We’ve been talking for
several weeks now about God’s call to evangelism. And this is where evangelism
gets really scary for us. Because it’s far worse than
knocking on doors. That’s easy. Real evangelism is about walking with
people in their darkest hours. It’s sticking with them, no matter what. It’s
about being there when no one else will be.
That takes a lot of work. A lot of dedication. A lot of patience and
persistence. A lot of love. But you know
something, when we do these things we model the truth of what God is doing. God
never abandons us. It doesn’t matter what we do or where we go, what happens to
us, God is always with us.
What is true for us is true
for them. And when we stand with them, they will see Christ hidden behind our
face.
Advent is about God standing
alongside us as our lives are buffed and battered by the turmoil of the world
in which we live. Advent is about the promise of God coming into our very
midst, about his incarnation as a child named Jesus. The Advent word, Immanuel,
means “God is with us.” You and I can make that real for someone else. We can
show Immanuel by living a life of proclamation, by keeping awake and keeping
aware of the world around us and what it does to people and then responding as
Christ would, with love, healing, comfort, and peace.
It is what we have received.
It is what we are called to spread to others. Amen.