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Rochester, New York

 

 
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Highlights from the June 2006 edition's:

 

 

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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link June 27, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

I love family reunions.  The first time I brought Paul to one of mine, he almost left me.  The second time, he was the life of the party.  My family is a loud and raucous lot, with lots of kidding.  Someone's feelings seem to always get hurt and there's a lot of making up.  Ultimately, the crew gathers around the table and everyone manages to have a really good time and when we all head to our respective homes, we are delighted to have attended.   We all delight in the interaction of the next generation: all the nieces and nephews who love getting together.  We tell our family stories:  my personal favorite is about my grandnephew, Reid.  When he was about 4, my niece, Pam, brought him so he could see snow. We had a wonderful time together and he was enchanted by my Golden Retriever, Brewster.  One evening, she was going to give him a bath and I suggested that she use some Dead Sea Bath Salts that I had received as a gift and was probably never going to use.  I went about my business and then stopped into the bathroom to see how they were doing.  The bath water was bright blue!  I quickly realized that she had grabbed the Miracle Grow instead of the bath salts.  We snatched him out of the tub and rinsed him off several times.  Now, at almost 15, he is six foot two, 197 pounds and packed with muscle from weight lifting to prepare for high school football.  Family legend says that the miracle grow caused this growth.  I love family reunions and family stories.  They draw us closer together.

Several Open Arms members are travelling to Arizona to take part in our denominational family reunion.  It will contain all the dynamics that our blood families contain.  There are "cousins" who don't get along for one reason or another;  there will be slights, real or imagined;  there will be great joy at seeing long distant brothers and sisters.  And all will be well when we join for meals and, especially, for worship.  When a thousand voices join in song and prayer, the walls shake, the Spirit moves, and we are all reminded why we are church.

Wherever we go, we bring ourselves with us.  The selves that are balanced and the selves that are conflicted - all within the same body.  We bring our strengths and our weaknesses, our faults and our virtues.  And whoever we are and however we are get embraced and loved at our family reunion.  Because "home is where, when you go there, they have to take you in." (Robert Frost)

And when we return from General Conference, we will bring with us the excitement and the love and the greetings from our brothers and sisters and cousins and aunts and uncles from all over the world.

I love family reunions. 

Rev. Jim

 

Deacon's Corner

 

Yo God,
In just four days I will be at a life changing event.
How can one not be changed when gathering with hundreds of people of faith.
To surround oneself with MCC church people will be uplifting.
The music, the workshops, the worship, the conversations....all a gift from You. .
To see old friends and make new ones from around the world.
To see history in the making as we do the business of this Fellowship.
To be challenged and stretched in my faith as we become more and more
inclusive of Your people.

God, I pray for safe travel for all.
I pray for wisdom and understanding within the Clergy house and the Laity house.
I prayer that our Elders and leaders hear the voices of Your people.
I also pray that they always hear Your gentle loving voice.
In just four days I will be at a life changing event...
"God is good...all the time." Amen-

Deacon Debbie

 
Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Lu's ordination is on July 29.  There will be a barbeque in her honor on July 28 at 6pm at church.  Rev. Elder Arlene Ackerman and Rev. Delores Berry and her partner, Judy Kisor, will join us for worship.  Lu's mother will also be with us.

 

Women's Softball

The next game is June 27 at 6pm at Henrietta Town Park, Field 3

 

Prayer Requests:

Renee asks prayers for Karen who is suffering from a back problem and a viral respiratory illness

Please hold in prayer those who will be traveling to General Conference this week.

Keep David E in your prayers as he settles in Albany, Georgia.

Keep Ray in your prayers as he works at a Christian camp with inner city youth in Michigan.  Send him an email or a care package would be even better.

Terry K is recuperating well  from knee surgery.

Rebecca is recovering from surgery, putting us all to shame with her exercise program.

Daniel F is recuperating from surgery at home.

Some of our members are suffering depression

Some people are out of work.

 

Pride Parade is July 14. Contact Rebecca if you want to work on the float.

Pride Worship is July 15 at Genesee Valley Park at 11.  There will be no worship at church on July 15.  If you bring your Open Arms offering to Pride Worship, please put it in an envelope clearly marked "Open Arms"

Rev. Deb Roof, soon to be Steve's ministry supervisor, will be preaching.

 


 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link June 20, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

Did you ever have a day that was so good that if you died at the end of it you'd have no regrets?   I had one of those days today.  When the alarm went off at 4:10am, I wasn't so sure.  My comment to Paul when I came in from walking the dog was "there aren't supposed to be fireflies flashing when I take the dog for his morning walk!"  We left shortly afterwards to get to Highland Hospital to pray over Rebecca before her surgery.   Debbie Krusemark beat us to the hospital!  We sat with Jessica while Rebecca was in surgery and only left when she was in her room.  The surgery went very well and later today, Rebecca insisted that she get out of bed to walk.  She walked laps around the unit - 18 laps - which equals 2/3 of a mile.  On the day of her surgery!  That's determination.

At 6pm, I had the incredible honor of conducting the funeral of a remarkable 25 year old.  The funeral home was so full they had to set up a second room with a television for the overflow crowd to watch the service.   Story after story was told about him.   I never saw so many pierced youngsters in one place.  There were tears and laughter.  It was a wonderful opportunity to recognize that this young man had created a community around him.   What a gift that service was to reinforce that faith is not to prevent bad things from happening but to strengthen us for the unpredictable journey and to teach us to lean as well as be leaned on.

That was my day.  On the way home, I got further inspiration when I talked to John who was at church doing the books - as he has been doing for 26 years and then to Jessica who was so delighted and relieved to have Rebecca safe and her church family around her.  And Rebecca's mother, Susie, in Texas, could rest easy knowing that we love and care for her little girl.  

And to top it all off, I walked into the house at 8:30 to find that Paul had prepared supper.  It just doesn't get any better than this.

.Rev. Jim

 

Deacon's Corner

 

Yo God,
I'm sitting here gently rocking in our new tree swing.
The pups are resting at my feet. There is a soft breeze kissing my cheek.  The tender sounds of summer play in my ears.

I feel You sitting right next to me God.
Tenderly swinging back and forth to the heartbeat of the earth.
Your Spirit is so strong that tears come to my eyes.
How can I put into words this moment of love?
How can I share with others that You are alive?
How can I not?

God, thank you for this moment together.
I know that there are many such moments to share with You.
All I need to do is take the time to be with You...
...for You are always with me. Amen

 

Deacon Debbie

 
Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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GENDA

With two days left to the regular legislative session, it is important to continue the fight for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality and justice.  It’s wrong for an employee to be fired because he doesn't act masculine enough for the boss, or for a tenant to be evicted from an apartment when the landlord finds out she lives her life in a gender different from the sex she was assigned at birth.  That’s why New York needs the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA) (A.6584 / S.3752).  The Assembly has yet to vote on this important bill.  It also has over 70 Assembly co-sponsors, and mirrors similar laws passed in 13 other states.  Call your Assemblymember in these remaining hours of session and urge him or her to go to Assembly Speaker Silver and ask that GENDA be brought to a vote before the entire Assembly.  If you want to make two calls, call the Speaker’s office directly and say that you want to see GENDA brought to a vote before the Assembly concludes its business this week.

To find your assemblymember’s contact information visit or if you’re not sure who your assemblymember is, visit: http://assembly.state.ny.us/mem/

 

Women's Softball

The next game is June 27 at 6pm at Henrietta Town Park, Field 3

 

Prayer Requests:

Jackie and Lee are sad over the loss of their smallest puppy.

Keep Ray in your prayers as he works at a Christian camp with inner city youth in Michigan.  Send him an email or a care package would be even better.

Linny is apartment hunting.  Keep her in your prayers.

Small Michele is recovering from a nasty cold-type thing.

Terry Kelly is recuperating from knee surgery.

Rebecca is recovering from surgery.

Daniel Fisher has surgery tomorrow.

Some of our members are suffering depression

 

 

 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link June 13, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

Sometimes it seems that the world spins faster and faster.  My prayers for things to slow down don't get answered.  Instead I hear God telling me "Dance faster!"  I say, "But God, I'm dancing as fast as I can."  And I hear God telling me, "Dance faster!"  I say, "But God, I can't"  And I hear God say, "Of course you can.  Did you think you were dancing alone?  Did you forget I was your dance partner?  Did you forget that you can do whatever I need you to do?  Did you forget that you not only have Me, you also have an incredible community around you."  I said "OK, God, I'll dance faster."

Such a whirlwind is our life!  Things happen so fast in our lives and in our church that if you blink you'll miss it. 

I was delighted to announce last week that Lu Johnson will be ordained on July 29 and that the church will have a catered barbeque in honor of Lu's Texas roots on Saturday July 28 at 6pm. Don't forget to put that on your calendar.  It will take place at church.

Steve will have his last Sunday with us also on July 29 before he goes off to do his seminary field placement at Lakeville UCC.  Steve will be preaching on July 22.

Gene will also be doing his seminary field placement starting at the beginning of August, also at a UCC church.

We are searching for a new pianist.  Two persons have signified interest so far.

General Conference is coming soon.   Several people will be away for conference. Paul and I will go out a few days early to do three days of sight-seeing before conference starts.  Deacon Renee will be preaching on the one Sunday I will be away - July 1.

The parking lot will have work done on Tuesday, June 19.  The potholes will be repaired, cracks will be filled, the whole parking lot will be sealed and lines for parking spots will be repainted.

Rebecca will have her surgery on the 20th.

Songbook Sunday will be July 22.  Get your suggestions for show tunes in by this Sunday (email  oamcc@frontiernet.net).

These and other things are why I'm dancing so fast.  With my hand in God's I find that I can dance way faster than I thought I could.

Rev. Jim

 

Deacon's Corner

 

Yo God,
Babies, babies and more babies.
God, if I ever doubt Your being, I just need to hold a baby.
How can one look into their eyes and not see Your love?
How can one have their small hand clasp your finger and not know of Your creation?
How can one touch their soft skin and not know of Your gentle being?
How can one hold this small bundle of life and not know of a Spirit of great life?

God, when I hold a small child remind me to be a person of love.
God, when a child clasps my hand, remind me to be gentle with Your creations.
God, when I touch a small child or the child in each of us, remind me that Your are that child.
God, when I see life around me, those that are lost, those that are hungry, those that give as well as take, remind me, that You live within each of them. That You call each of us out to be the babies as well as the adults in this world. For each of us needs to be cared for and to take care of the light of love You place within each of our souls. Amen

 

Deacon Debbie

 
Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Women's Softball

The game is June 13 at 6pm at Henrietta Town Park, Field 3

 

Terry Kelly

Terry Kelly had knee replacement surgery on Tuesday.  She came through the surgery very well and is getting excellent care at Highland Hospital.  She would welcome short visits.  They expect her to go home on Friday.

 

One of our members is going through a rough time and asks the prayers of the congregation as the hard work of life-sorting happens.

 

Our old friend and former member, Daniel Fisher, who now lives in Atlanta, asks prayers as he has some facial reconstruction surgery on June 21st.

 

Mari Lou Lall is hospitalized after having a stroke.  She also is in renal failure.  Melody asks for your prayers.

 

Other Prayer Requests:

Steve Freedman is still asking prayers for his tooth.

Anthony asks prayers and says "A gulf war vet, very hard working, lost his job today.  He is dealing with a lot, including a conviction for a crime he commited as a young man.  He is also dealing with post war trauma.  It is very hard for him to find work, and he is feeling hopeless.  He is so afraid to be homeless again, and said he would rather be dead than go out on the streets again.  He needs to know that he is valued, and he needs a job.  The VA has been useless.  He has a 10 year old son as well.  Thanks."

Keep Pete Fedele and Cheryl Fellows in your prayers as they bike across the country.

Keep Ray in your prayers as he works at a Christian camp with inner city youth in Michigan.

 

Adult Sunday School has finished.  There will be another series in the fall.

 

Labyrinth Walk with Lu Johnson.  Wednesday, June 13 at 5pm at Asbury First United Methodist Church on East Ave.

 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link June 6, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

 

My wonderful old truck with 311,056 miles retired with honors today.  I am now driving a used Hyundai Sonata.  It feels strange.  I've always seen myself as a pickup driver.  I have some adjusting to do!

 

Today, June 5, is the 40th anniversary of the Six Day War in the Middle East.   I arrived in Baghdad a month after the war when antipathy towards Americans was at its height.  Even with the aftermath of that war, Baghdad was a much safer place then than it is now.  Please keep all the people of the Middle East in your prayers.  I just heard from my best friend, John and his wife Clare and son Giorgio, who all live in Beirut where John is a professor at American University.  I pray daily for their safety.

 

Worship last Sunday was wonderful.  Our new troupe, The Open Arms Odyssey Players - or OAOP, performed for the first time.  They did their skit in the place of the first reading.  Anthony introduced the players, Chris and Paul acted, Jessica interspersed a reading from Acts.  It was well done and powerful.  We look forward to many more appearances by OAOP.

 

We had a visitor from MCC Toronto.  She was blown away by our worship and said she had a spiritual experience.  She felt that God brought her to Open Arms on Sunday and will find a way to have her come back to help us learn about a program called "Creating a Life  That Matters."  Ironically, tall Michelle (who at retreat wished she were taller!) became interested in that program when she heard about it at regional conference in Pittsburgh last November.   I've heard that coincidence is God's way of remaining anonymous.  Hmmm....

 

After the sermon, Michelle and Paul sang A New Day Has Come.  As always, the congregation was delighted with their performance.

 

Worship is a powerful act anywhere.  It has become especially so for us.   One of the exercises that Rev. Rick Danielson had us do as a wrap-up exercise involved taking a ball of string.  The first person said something new learned during retreat then threw the ball but still held onto the string.  The next person did the same.  At the end, there was a web of string joining us.  It was a visual way to see the connections between us.  I've often felt that I can see those lines of connection that run among us during worship on Sunday, not only in our boisterous community greeting, but throughout worship and fellowship afterwards.  We are truly blessed.

 

Rev. Jim

 

Deacon's Corner is not here this week because of a technical difficulty.  She sent her column, Yo God, but it didn't get to me.  She will resend it for next week.

 

Bill Van Tassel has settled into his new life in Arizona.  He loves it so far.  He'd like to hear from his Open Arms family.  His address:

Bill Van Tassel, 7045 North 7th Street #256, Phoenix, AZ 85020
 
David Eitemiller has arrived in Albany, Georgia.  It was a gruesome trip down by himself.  Driving the moving truck, towing his van, unloading himself was a real test of his strength.  He misses us all and would love to hear from you:
David Eitemiller
539 North Westover Blvd. #1202
Albany, GA 3170
Phone: (229) 594-4615
 
 
Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Women's Softball

The game is June 6, 7:15pm, Henrietta Town Park #4

 

Church Retreat

Thanks to all who attended church retreat last Saturday.  We had 29 in attendance.  Rev. Rick Danielson did a wonderful job leading us through the day and we had fun and ate a lot and got to know one another better.  It all works to the good of the church.  Ripples upon ripples upon ripples.

 

Susan Tyson has been in Highland Hospital.  Please keep her in your prayers for a speedy recovery and a quick return to Open Arms.

 

Please keep Lu Johnson in your prayers.  She will travel to Lancaster, PA on Thursday evening to have her ordination interview on Friday.

 

Ray and Lonnie have scheduled a Church cookout picnic for June 9th,at the church at 6pm.  This is our monthly potluck and games night.  Contact Lonnie (scilon777@yahoo.com) or Ray (elyonsboy@yahoo.com) for info.

 

Prayers:

For those about to undergo surgery, that they will heal quickly.

For Steve's abscessed tooth that the dentist can find a way to save the tooth and that Steve will heal quickly.

Keep LGBT people in Jamaica, in Moldova and in all the places where MCC is working to encourage acceptance and equality.

For those who are seeking jobs

For those who suffer depression

For those who deal with cancer

In Thanksgiving for God's many and continual blessings

 

Adult Sunday School has finished.  There will be another series in the fall.

 

Labyrinth Walk with Lu Johnson.  Wednesday, June 13 at 5pm at Asbury First United Methodist Church on East Ave.

 
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