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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
 E-link May 2, 2007

 


 
Pastor's Reflection
Picture a bleary-eyed me and 20-something other members and friends who traveled to Albany on May 1 to join the 1100 other New Yorkers at the Equality and Justice Rally organized by Empire State Pride Agenda.  Picture three bus loads of Rochesterians arriving at 4:45am at Village Gate, knowing that it would be after 9pm before they arrived home.   Picture Open Arms MCC having the largest contingent.
 
How thrilling for us to be a part of this large rally in Albany!  People from all over the state joining together and then going in groups to their Assembly members and Senators to bring our cause to their attention.
 
The noon outdoor rally rattled the windows of the Legislature as the huge crowd chanted "What do we want?  Marriage.  When to we want it? Now.  What do we want?  GENDA (Gender Equality Non-discrimination Act).  When do we want it?  Now.  What do we want?  Dignity.  When do we want it?  Now.  There was a section in the front reserved for clergy who were encouraged to wear religious garb and to sit together.   There are hundreds of New York congregations who are presenting a view different from those who have claimed the religious voice of discrimination.
 
We heard from Legislators who were pioneers in coming out years before it was politically safe to do so.  We heard from new legislators, including Danny O'Donnell, Rosie's brother.   When she met him, our dear Roza asked, "So, why is Rosie leaving The View?  Inquiring minds want to know.  Danny suggested that Roza take up that question with Rosie.  We heard from Rev. Norman Kansfield, the Reformed Church minister who officiated at his daughter's marriage to her partner in Massachusetts.  By so doing, his clergy credentials were removed.  He lost his job as President of a Reformed Church seminary.  His credentials as a theologian were removed from him.   He did what was right and was punished for it.  He is not crushed!  A Methodist seminary has hired him as "Senior Scholar in Residence" to signal to the Methodist church that not all Methodists are closed to God's LGBT children.  I had the pleasure of meeting Rev. Kansfield and his wife of 46 years.  For the first time, they have been invited to speak at a Reformed Church college in Iowa.  
 
Equality is not given.  It is taken.   We can't wait for legislatures and politicians and churches to do the right thing.  We have to be there speaking out.
 
Anne and Bess and Sherri and Donna were our bus captains.  They kept food, drink and conversations going the whole time.  There were frequent bus chants of "Bess in a dress!!!!!" as we delighted in the number of people from Open Arms going to the rally.  We met her challenge and now she has to pay her debt.  COME TO CHURCH THIS SUNDAY TO SEE BESS IN A DRESS!
 
Most of the news items and videos had pictures or quotes from our Anne Tischer who has mastered the art of the sound byte.  Bess also appears in some of the news videos, as does Paul and also Linda Utter.
 
So, yes, there are many bleary-eyed Open Arms MCC folks this morning.  For a good reason.  For many good reasons.
 
Rev. Jim

Deacon's Corner
Yo God,
It just makes me mad, all they wanted was to march..
To be proud, visible , peaceful queer people.
The police threaten to arrest them....violence was a clear possibility.
A group belted eggs at them as well as words of insult.
The yolks dripped down her clergy stole as she and others marched.
The voice of social justice even when silent, is heard.
This was how it was in Moldova.

They boarded the bus early with sleep still in their eyes.
The headed to the Capital, these visible, proud, peaceful queer people.
There was no threat of violence or arrest.
The Governor himself was to welcome them.
Their voices  of social justice were not silent, but strong and proud.
This is how it was in Albany, New York.

God, I pray in thanksgiving for those who march for me.
I pray for non-violence, for those who's clergy robes dripped with egg.
I pray for those who do social justice for all of Your people.
I pray for Moldova in their silence and  Albany with voice strong and proud.
God, I know You walk with each of them in Your loving Spirit. Amen

 
Deacon Debbie

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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“Somewhere Over The Rainbow”  Rainbow Seniors will be hosting a Spring dance on Sat. May 5 at the Roger Robach Center, Lake Ontario Beach Park from 5:30pm to 10pm.  See or call Pete Fedele for ticket info.  He is in the directory.


 

Lu Johnson is moving this Saturday, May 5.  She needs some help loading and loading.  If you can help her, shoot her an email luluj48@aol.com or call her at 802-5078.

 
Prayers:

Our Moderator, Rev. Nancy L. Wilson has sent out a prayer request and an action request (sent in a separate email) for the emerging LGBT movement in Jamaica.

Keep the fledgling LGBT movement in Moldova and other eastern European countries also in your prayers.

For those who are seeking jobs

For those who suffer depression

For those who deal with cancer

In Thanksgiving for God's many and continual blessings

In Thanksgiving for the safe travel of many of our members and friends to Albany on Tuesday for the Equality and Justice Rally

 

Adult Sunday School meets on Sunday at 9:30am.  Contact Lu (luluj48@aol.com) with questions.

 

White Water Rafting - Ray is tentatively planning the rip for Memorial Day Weekend. This will
be a tent camping weekend and we will raft on Saturday or Sunday.  Ray is figuring the whole package to cost 200.00 per person, plus gas for the drivers. He needs a non-refundable deposit by Sunday May 5th, no
exceptions unfortunately because of the hefty deposit needed for the rafting company and campground. Please let Ray know by April 19th 352-279-4571, or

elyonsboy@yahoo.com

 

 

  

 

 

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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link May 9, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

May 6 will forever live in our church history as "Bess in a Dress" Day.  In a fabulous ensemble, including white dress, veil, fake flower bouquet and fabulous white lacy sneakers, Bess hid out in pastor's office until it was time to precede him down the aisle during the third praise song.  The ripple of laughter and applause started at the back and flowed forward.  Here is a picture of Bess and a fake newspaper notice:

 

 

 

As a community, we laugh and pray and eat together.  We try to do good works and to work together for equality.  Bess was willing to go all out to honor the pledge she made to dress in a dress if 22 people went to Albany.  She is a good sport and a great credit to Open Arms.

 

We sometimes forget how good we have it!  We've been reading about and praying for the work of our "missionaries" in Eastern Europe and in Jamaica.   Our church planters are working hard, and sometimes in danger, to encourage our LGBT sisters and brothers in countries that are still often repressive.  We sometimes forget how good we have it.  Right here in Rochester, there are homeless teens who are struggling with orientation and gender identity issues.  Many are homeless because their families threw them out forgetting, in the process, to love them.  There are LGBT children in schools who are constantly victims of bullying.  There are always teens contemplating suicide because they have come to believe what they have been told - that they are unlovable.  Many of our people experience hardships in their lives no one knows about.  Many people in Rochester and the surrounding areas live in the prison of the closet, or in verbally and physically abusive relationships, or are sexually abused children.

 

In the movie Field of Dreams, we kept hearing the refrain "build it and they will come."  I want us to build a church together where we never forget how blessed we are and how fortunate we are.  Let us never stop believing that our role is to be the body of Christ in this community.  Let us never get complacent.  Let us never think that church is just a feel-good place.

 

Let us continue to pray together and laugh together and eat together because by building our community together, we are stronger together to change this world - one person at a time.

 

Rev. Jim

Deacon's Corner

Yo God,
I was reading something by Amelia Barr, 
"Time is a very precious gift from God;
So precious that it is only given to us moment by moment."

How quickly we want time to pass sometimes...
I wish it was the weekend...
I wish I was old enough to drive...
I wish I was old enough to retire...
Why is it so hard for us to be in the moment?
Why are we either looking at the past or wishing for the future?
God help each of us to be in this moment now.
This moment is given to us by You and then it's gone forever..
Let us celebrate and dance and sing and give praise, if only for a moment.
Let us know that each moment holds Your love.
Let us remember that life is indeed a precious gift from You.  Amen-
Deacon Debbie

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Church Retreat - June 2

Let's fill the church on Saturday, June 2 from 10am to 4pm for a church retreat.  We will be led through the day by Rev. Dr. Rick Danielson.

Church Board meeting Friday evening at 6pm.

 

Potluck and Karaoke night this Saturday, May 11 at 6pm.  Food theme is Asian.  If you prefer a different food, bring that.

 

Church Work Day is Saturday, May 19.  It will be a spring cleaning work day.  We’ll clean God’s house on this day from      9-5.  Come for the day or just for a while.  Volunteers are needed to paint walls, wash windows, clean carpets and more.  See or contact Terry K for more info.

 

The next women’s softball game will be on Wednesday, May 9 at 7:15 at Henrietta Town Park Field 4.  The women lost by only one point this past week; final score 10-11.
 
Pete F has a car top carrier that he can't use.  If anyone wants it, they can have it for a donation to the church.  Contact Pete

 

Prayers:

Keep LGBT people in Jamaica, in Moldova and in all the places where MCC is working to encourage acceptance and equality.

For those who are seeking jobs

For those who suffer depression

For those who deal with cancer

In Thanksgiving for God's many and continual blessings

For David E. as he prepares to relocate his life to Albany, GA.

 

Adult Sunday School meets on Sunday at 9:30am.  Contact Lu (luluj48@aol.com) with questions.

 

White Water Rafting - Ray is tentatively planning the rip for Memorial Day Weekend. This will
be a tent camping weekend and we will raft on Saturday or Sunday.  Ray is figuring the whole package to cost 200.00 per person, plus gas for the drivers. He needs a non-refundable deposit by Sunday May 5th, no
exceptions unfortunately because of the hefty deposit needed for the rafting company and campground. Please let Ray know by April 19th

 

 

 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link May 16, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

 

Saturday is the long-awaited work day at church.  We will gather at 9 to clean and freshen inside and out.  No matter what level of skill or interest, there will be a job for you.   Terry Kelly has been making a list and checking it twice and has a more-than-ample list of chores that need to be done by people of all skill levels.  Martha has been working hard outside getting ready for the landscaping jobs that will be done on Saturday.   There will be elbow grease, lots of laughter, and, of course, food.

 

The result will be our work for good stewardship - taking care of what God has given us.

 

Debbie K. will be preaching on Sunday.  Her topic is "Yo, God, You what me to do WHAT?!"  The message will be, as always, uplifting, and we can always count on Debbie to make us laugh and think.  During Sunday's worship, Rev. Jim will offer a prayer and a departure blessing for David.

 

Karen W. preached on mothers last Sunday.  A visitor told me that she is so pleased to visit a church where women play an equal role.  Sometimes, we take that for granted.

 

A week from Sunday is Pentecost - the celebration of the coming of the Holy Spirit upon the church - the birthday of the church.  We have learned that when the Spirit comes, things happen.   These happenings always stretch us because the Spirit of God never leaves us in our old places but always leads us to new and not always comfortable places.  Our common journey of faith often makes us uncomfortable but that discomfort and the enlarging of our own spirits bring us and our world to a better place.

 

I hope you never cease giving God praise for the many blessings we experience each day of our lives, as individuals and as a community.

 

Rev. Jim

Deacon's Corner

Yo God, why is it?
Why is it that when I'm outside I truly feel Your Holy Spirit,
yet inside rooms and hallways I often feel cold and lost?
Why is it when I hear the morning dove sing I hear Your voice,
yet blasted with traffic noise I can not hear myself or You?
Why is it when I look up into the clear blue sky I see Your face,
yet have lost Your being in other's faces?
Help me to feel You in all the places of my life.
Help me to hear Your voice through all the everyday noise.
Help me to see Your face in others as well as myself.
These things I pray.  Amen.  

 

Deacon Debbie

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Church Retreat - June 2

Let's fill the church on Saturday, June 2 from 10am to 4pm for a church retreat.  We will be led through the day by Rev. Dr. Rick Danielson.

Saturday is   WORK DAY at church.  We'll start at 9am.  There are many inside and outside projects.  Contact Terry K for more info.

 

There is a women’s softball game tonight, Wednesday, May 16 at 6pm at Henrietta Town Park Field 2.
 
David E will worship with us on Sunday and then will leave on Tuesday for his new home and job in Albany, Georgia.  Come to church on Sunday to have a chance to say "Godspeed" to David.

 

Prayers:

For the repose of the soul of Jerry Falwell and for a spirit of awakening and acceptance for his followers.

For Bryan, the spouse of Rev. Jim Martin, pastor of MCC Charlotte, NC, who had a heart attack shortly after their move from St. Louis.

For those about to undergo surgery, that they will heal quickly.

Keep LGBT people in Jamaica, in Moldova and in all the places where MCC is working to encourage acceptance and equality.

For those who are seeking jobs

For those who suffer depression

For those who deal with cancer

In Thanksgiving for God's many and continual blessings

 

Adult Sunday School has finished.  There will be another series in the fall.

 

White Water Rafting - Ray is planning the trip for Memorial Day Weekend. .Please contact Ray for information.

 

 

 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link May 23, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

 

Thanks to all who came for cleanup day at church last Saturday.  I've never seen the inside of the church so clean.  The carpets and windows are pristine!   The south side of the church has a new coat of paint and there are sore feet from standing on ladders.   The landscaping is taking shape and will get better and better.   There were many hands making light work, ably guided by Terry K and Martha K.  And, of course, there was food.  Someone said that one of the things we do best is eat together.   Eating, while community is being strengthened, is sacramental.

 

On Sunday, we had a departure blessing and a gathering after church for David E.   It's always hard to send one of our own forth to a new chapter of life.   David is strongly tied to us and will remain so, even in Georgia.  During worship, Deb K and Steve did a duet of Traveling Light.  That brought smiles and tapping feet.

 

On June 2, we will have another opportunity to gather as we come together for a church retreat, led by Rev. Dr. Rick Danielson.  This is an opportunity for us to strengthen our bonds and grow closer as a church family.  Please make this a priority.  You won't regret it.  We will gather from 10 to 4.  Please sign up or send me an email if you are able to come.

 

We have been experiencing transitions.   Linda, Billy and David have moved to other cities.   Deacon Gene is pursuing ministry options with UCC and has resigned his diaconate after good and dedicated service and will be fulfilling a seminary requirement by doing student pastoring at a UCC church from August to May.   Steve will also be doing student pastoring at a UCC church and then going to an MCC teaching church in another city for a year of MCC internship before ordination.   Thanks to both Gene and Steve for their constancy and generosity.

 

We are seeking another musician to take us through this transition as a church community.

 

Changes, changes, changes.  I don't know about you, but I don't like changes of this magnitude. I don't want people to go away.  I don't want to lose Gene and Steve.   However, experience has shown us all along the way that God will not leave us orphans.   God will provide.  We will continue to pray as if everything depends on God and will continue to work as if everything depends on us.  And we won't do it alone.  We'll continue on the path of building community and continue the work of Christ on earth.

 

Rev. Jim

Deacon's Corner

Yo God, why have I grown afraid to dream?
I know how to want for more, to yearn for power,
to desire money, lust for security, hunger for relationships,
but when did I forget how to dream?
When did I lose the ability to stretch beyond limits?
When did I start "playing it safe" and not risk being playful?
When did I stop seeing unicorns and Tinkerbell?
When did I stop singing into a hairbrush in front of the mirror?
When I deny my hopes and dreams I turn my focus to the ground.
I carefully plan and calculate each step and action I take.
In doing so, I miss the pictures in the clouds and the double
rainbows that You place in the sky for me. God, help me to
understand that to hope and dream is not ignoring the
practical things of life but adding to the depth of life itself.  Amen

 

Deacon Debbie

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Church Retreat - June 2

Let's fill the church on Saturday, June 2 from 10am to 4pm for a church retreat.  We will be led through the day by Rev. Dr. Rick Danielson.

There is a women’s softball game tonight, Wednesday, May 30 at 6pm at Henrietta Town Park Field 2.
 
Ray and Lonnie have scheduled a Church picnic for June 9th, instead of games night at the church.  The picnic will be at Ellison Park, we have the Circle Shelter area reserved for our church family.  The picnic will
begin any time after 2pm and end by 10pm.
Prayers:

For Mary B friend, Laura J, who is at The Highlands of Brighton on Lac DeVille for rehabilitation.  She would like visitors.

For safe travel for David E as he drives the moving truck to Georgia. 

For those who will go White Water rafting this weekend, that they enjoy themselves and stay safe.

For all who travel this holiday weekend.

For those about to undergo surgery, that they will heal quickly.

Keep LGBT people in Jamaica, in Moldova and in all the places where MCC is working to encourage acceptance and equality.

For those who are seeking jobs

For those who suffer depression

For those who deal with cancer

In Thanksgiving for God's many and continual blessings

 

Adult Sunday School has finished.  There will be another series in the fall.

 

White Water Rafting - Ray is planning the trip for Memorial Day Weekend. .Please contact Ray for information.

 

 

 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link May 30, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

 

What is a retreat anyway?  For us it will be an opportunity to stop with all the busy things we do as a church to spend a day together, praying, reflecting on scripture, playing, getting to know one another in a deeper way.   When in your busy life do you ever get a chance to look inward instead of being distracted by all the things that go on around you all the time?  That's what Saturday will be.   Each one of us is a part of the beautiful picture that Open Arms MCC is.  Saturday will be a time for us to see the picture from a different perspective.  Your presence is needed.

 

If you can help with food, please let Lu J or Donna J know as soon as you can.

 

On another note.  Tomorrow morning, I will drive to the town of Newfane to bury a man who was my patient.   He had a very troubled life.  His mother introduced him to alcohol when he was 10.  She didn't like to drink alone.   When he was 14, he became involved with an 18 year old woman who became pregnant.  He was in prison for half of his life.  In the midst of this, he found God and became an ordained Pentecostal minister and travelling preacher.  He was not able to sustain a sober life and lost himself and his children to drugs.   He never lost his love for God and never stopped believing in God's love for him.  He also was never able to conquer his addictions.  I visited him every week or so since last October.  We had an interesting pastoral relationship and often prayed and talked of the scriptures.  He died alone on Monday night.  I was honored when his sister asked me to guide them through prayers and reflections at a graveside ceremony tomorrow.  My patient was such a troubled man and such a good soul trapped in a life debased by many things.  I'm glad I knew him.

 

Please pray for the repose of John's soul.  And pray for all those men and women, especially in the LGBT community, whose lives have been so harmed by substance abuse.

 

Rev. Jim

 

Deacon's Corner

 

Yo God, 
Why is it that we can't do everything we want to?
This Saturday I want to be at church for retreat, but also in Florida for a baptism.
I want to build deeper relationships with my church family.
I also want to hold my great nieces and nephew for the first time.
I want to share in the spiritual journey of the church.
I also want to see my great nephew baptize in Your name.
I want to share in the fellowship of laughter and prayer at Open Arms.
I also want to see my sister and her kids and their kids.

I am sorry that I will be missing the church retreat.
God, help me to keep my church family in prayer this Saturday.
I pray that they are open to Your voice and personal call.
I pray that they deepen their relationship with each other and with You.
I pray that they laugh, sing, cry, and are silent and rejoice throughout the day.
Yo God, please be with my church family this Saturday- Amen

 

Deacon Debbie

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Church Retreat - THIS SATURDAY 10-4.

Let's fill the church this Saturday, June 2 from 10am to 4pm for our church retreat.  Come at 9:30 for coffee and...We will start promptly at 10.  Please do not be late. We will be led through the day by Rev. Dr. Rick Danielson.

 

Ray and Lonnie have scheduled a Church picnic for June 9th,at the church.  More details to follow.
Prayers:

For those about to undergo surgery, that they will heal quickly.

Keep LGBT people in Jamaica, in Moldova and in all the places where MCC is working to encourage acceptance and equality.

For those who are seeking jobs

For those who suffer depression

For those who deal with cancer

In Thanksgiving for God's many and continual blessings

 

Adult Sunday School has finished.  There will be another series in the fall.

 

 

 
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