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Rochester, New York

 

 
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April

  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link April 3, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

This week we tell our holiest story, of the passion and death and resurrection of Jesus.  It is a story that transforms us – if we let it.  It is a story of commitment, of loyalty, of ultimate love and sacrifice.  It is a story that has the power to change the world.

 As Jesus makes this journey for us this week, the path of the via dolorosa, we have a journey to take also.  But it is an inward journey.  It is a journey to the place within us where God dwells.  It is a place that has often grown dusty from disuse.   Our journey this week is a journey of renewal.  Renewal of our consciousness of the God-presence inside us.  Renewal of our commitment to hear the God-voice within us which gives us true guidance.  Renewal of our promises to ourselves to be the persons we know we are destined to be.

 

In Jesus, God made promises.  This is our time to claim those promises.  This is our time to lay at the foot of the cross all the burdens we have been carrying, all the sinfulness that has separated us from God and from others.  This is our time to claim our new lives in the resurrection of Jesus.

 

Rev. Jim

Deacon's Corner

Yo God, the sun peeks through the edge of the trees as it awakens this cool spring dawn. The hint of orange becomes larger and larger as the sun raises to take its place in the morning sky.  It brings warmth, and life, and laughter to the earth as birds and flowers dance in her glory.

This week we remember Your son, Jesus, and His steps through life and death. His ministry awakened the hearts and souls of so many and continues to do so each new day.
His life still brings warmth, and life, and laughter to the earth as all of Your creatures dance in Your glory. God, let us remember the gift of Your Son this Easter week. Let us remember that like the sun this morning, He too rises to take His place next to You. The music dances in my heart..."Because He lives I can face tomorrow."  Amen

Deacon Debbie

MCC Laity Awards Nomination:
The Laity of MCC presents at each General Conference awards to the Laity. Laity are non-clergy in good standing within the Fellowship who have done outstanding ministry
This year Open Arms MCC has nominated the following individuals.

Faithfulness Award:
I believe that if it were not for John W.’s faithfulness to Open Arms MCC, over the past twenty-five years plus, our doors would have closed. John is one of the founding members of Open Arms. He helped name us and continues to ensure that we do ministry with open arms. He has served on the Board of Directors for many years. He has been our bookkeeper as well as treasurer. John has also been a strong financial supporter and holds part of the note on our church mortgage. He rarely misses a Sunday and has attended many General Conferences as our lay delegate often covering his own expenses. Even when he went in for heart surgery he was concerned about who would do the bank drops and write checks while he was out. He is a man of deep faith and belief in the Church. He has been touched by God and believes in giving back to God what God has given him. John’s faithfulness is part of the foundation that is Open Arms MCC. Please honor this man for his unselfish ministry to Open Arms MCC and our Fellowship. Thank you
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JoNee Shelton Lay Leadership Award, Social Justice, Social Action
Bess W and Anne T jumped into the fire of social justice and action without really knowing it or planning it. They wanted to get married; so they applied for a marriage license and were denied. They were the first same sex couple to do so in the city of Rochester. Still wanting to get married after being denied a license, they held their wedding on a sunny spring day in April 2004, in a small park in downtown Rochester. That morning they awoke finding their picture on the front page of the local newspaper above the fold. All the local TV stations and newspapers covered the wedding. From that moment in time, their ministry for social justice took hold.  Bess & Anne partnered with another couple in our church to develop a Social Justice team. This team has partnered with the New York State Pride Agenda for equal marriage. They offered training sessions so that others could become ambassadors for equal marriage. For the second year in a row they are signing folks up to go to Albany for Lobby Day and speak with the Governor and other government leaders. They partnered with Monroe Community College offering panel discussions. Bess worked, along with Anne’s support. to have domestic partner benefits recognized at Monroe Community College where she works. They organized an all day “Gay History” fair at our church bringing our community together. They have spoken before and met with political leaders to champion the call for justice within Rochester. Over the past three years these two women have taken Open Arms MCC down the path of ministry called social justice and action. They have taken our mission statement, Empowering People: Embracing the Journey: Changing the World: and done just that.  Please recognize and honor their faith and hope through the JoNee Shelton Lay Leadership Award for Social Justice, Social Action. Thank You

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

Rev. Jim

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Holy Week Services
 

We will have a Christian Seder on Thursday evening at 7pm.  It is not too late to sign up but please do so immediately.   We need to plan place settings.  Email: oamcc@frontiernet.net if you would like to attend.

 

On Good Friday at 7pm, we will hold a joint service with Tawa Pano Unity Christian Fellowship at their church at 758 South Ave (corner of South and Caroline St.)  Last year we had a wonderful service with our sisters and brothers from Tawa Pano.

 

On Easter Sunday, service is at 11 followed by a brunch  coordinated by Chef Karen L

Equality and Justice Day is on May 1 in Albany.  Sign up with Bess or Sherri M by Sunday, April 8.
Congratulations to Deb M on her promotion from Assistant to Associate Professor at Monroe Community College.
There is no Adult Sunday School this week.  Lu will resume classes April 15 at 9:30am

 

Choir Practice is every Tuesday at 6:45pm

 

The next board meeting will be on Friday, April 13 at 6pm.  Board meetings are public.

 

“Somewhere Over The Rainbow”  Rainbow Seniors will be hosting a Spring dance on Sat. May 5 at the Roger Robach Center, Lake Ontario Beach Park from 5:30pm to 10pm.  See or call Pete F for ticket info.  He is in the directory.

 


 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link April 11, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

It is no mistake that Easter comes in springtime.  As the feast of ultimate hope, it is fitting that it happens amidst the world waking from a long sleep under the snow and cold.   Each year, intellectually, we know spring will come again, but while we're going through it, we feel that winter is endless and we often get discouraged and even depressed in the darkness and lack of sunshine.  It's no surprise that we lose our sense of hope when surrounded by darkness.

Easter and the Resurrection remind us that there IS hope in the darkness.  Hope of new life, of renewal, of connection with Spirit and with others.  There is also great hope that we will rediscover ourselves and let the light of God shine through us.

Holy Week was the most wonderful and satisfying since I've been pastor.   Steve, Lu, and Gene prepared a wonderful Seder meal for Holy Thursday.   It was, all at the same time, faith-filled, instructive and fun.   For many attending, it was the first time they ever tried gefilte fish.  The evening was filled with prayer and response as well as with laughter.

Good Friday was a somber and reflective service at Tawa Pano Unity Christian Fellowship.  We had a huge turnout of Open Arms People.  One of our people described the service as "unexpectedly moving."

Easter Sunday was an incredible service.  The choir was better than ever before (and they've been GOOD before).  The joy in their faces set the tone for the service.  Our Steve has really come into his own with our choir.  The brunch after service was, as usual, very complete and satisfying.  Our thanks go to Chef Karen Lasky.  She had able assistance from Katie.  Sue W outdid herself with the countless elegant desserts she brought.  Jim and Paula joined us from Buffalo and brought an excellent home-made dessert.

Holy Thursday and Good Friday were better attended than any evening service in our history.

If you have not grabbed the hope of what God has done and continues to do for us, today is a good day to do it.  If your hope has become tarnished, today is a good day to polish it.  For us all, today is a good day to let God's love shine through us in the certainty that God is with us and loves us unrestrainedly.

And finally, a word of thanks to Terry K, our worship coordinator, who is behind the scenes each week to make sure that our weekly worship goes smoothly with all the needed participants.  Terry serves quietly, not seeking praise, but give her a word of thanks when you see her.

Rev. Jim

Deacon's Corner

Yo God, the last of the expecting Mom's did her thing.
Zoey Rose just a little bundle of four pounds was born this past Easter week.  She joins her cousins Payton Grace and Carter William within our family circle.  Birth is such a mystery and miracle gift from You.
These three little one's bring hope and faith into a world that truly needs it.
Thank You for that blessing.
Thank You  indeed, for this is the season of birth and rebirth.
This is the time when life emerges from winters deep sleep.
This is the moment that Jesus once again brings us the phenomenon of His life.
This season, this time, this moment, calls us to reaffirm our faith...
Christ has died...
Christ has risen...
Christ will come again! - Amen.

Deacon Debbie

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Sad News:

Sr. Fran Sweeney, a tireless worker for the poor, died this week

Michael Lee died Wednesday

Once again, Sheila C family has been devastated by the loss of an O'Reilly nephew.  This is the third nephew to die suddenly of heart-related problems.  Please keep Sheila and her family in your prayers.

Let's also keep in our prayers the Pittsford-Sutherland lacrosse player who was struck in the head with a ball and is on life-support at Strong.

and Patrick as he continues to heal from knee surgery

and for Mark H grandmother who is on hospice care and for Mark as he faithfully accompanies her on this part of her journey.


 

Equality and Justice Day is on May 1 in Albany.  Sign up online by Friday, April 13.  The website is:  www.prideagenda.org
Don't forget Potluck and Games night on Saturday, April 14 at 6pm.  The theme is Italian night.  Contact Ray

 

Adult Sunday School is at 9:30am

 

Choir Practice is every Tuesday at 6:45pm

 

The next board meeting will be on Friday, April 13 at 6pm.  Board meetings are public.

 

S.A.M.E.Social Action for Marriage Equality
Marriage Equality for All Taxpayers:
Tax Day Demonstration
Tuesday, April 17, 5:00 - 6:00pm
Henrietta Main Post Office
35 Jefferson Road

 

White Water Rafting - Ray is tentatively planning the rip for Memorial Day Weekend. This will
be a tent camping weekend and we will raft on Saturday or Sunday  Ray is figuring the whole package to cost 200.00 per person, plus gas for the drivers. He needs a non-refundable deposit by Sunday May 5th, no
exceptions unfortunately because of the hefty deposit needed for the rafting company and campground. Please let Ray know by April 19th

 

“Somewhere Over The Rainbow”  Rainbow Seniors will be hosting a Spring dance on Sat. May 5 at the Roger Robach Center, Lake Ontario Beach Park from 5:30pm to 10pm.  See or call Pete F for ticket info.  He is in the directory.

 


 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link April 18, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

We are a community of hope and joy.  We are a community in which God's presence is felt.  We are a community of flawed individuals seeking to overcome history and shortcomings on our journey in God, to God, with God - a journey with each other.

We let one another down sometimes; we disappoint one another sometimes; we are upset or angry with one another sometimes.

When we are taking Jesus' message to heart, we recover from our failures, our disappointments, our anger at one another and remember what we're all about.  We move forward together.  We don't hold grudges against one another.  We model the community founded by Jesus and carry on the work of the Christ.  We can't impact the world if we don't impact ourselves and our faith community.

If one had to be perfect before (s)he could join a church, there would be no one in churches.  When God loves us as we are, we are called upon to do the same for each other.

On another note: I've been concerned about attendance.  When we were at our old location, we were averaging in the 50's on a regular Sunday.  In our new church, we've experienced a high of 92 people on our Dedication Sunday.  Starting during the cold cold days of winter, we've rarely had a Sunday in the 60's.  We don't seem to be losing a lot of people so I'm at a loss to understand why we're not on the grow.  When I saw the excitement on Easter Sunday, I knew that we are doing something very right as a community.  When I hear the choir sing and experience their excitement, I know we are doing something right as a community.

Can you help me understand our present attendance situation?  Please give me your ideas about what's going on.  Please be very frank with me if you know something I need to know.  Please feel free to send me ideas that you think would enhance our community and worship life.

I am working on a worship survey that you will be able to complete online in the near future.  But for now, please take a few minutes to share your ideas and views with me.  I need your help. Email me at oamcc@frontiernet.net.  I thank you.

Rev. Jim

Deacon's Corner

Yo God...
To read the headline news is to be overcome by disbelief.
So many young individuals whose life's were taken in a split moment of time.  Students whose eager faces sat in classrooms and dorms embracing college life.
Young men and women starting out on the path of adulthood.
Young women and men with such promise and life before them.
Daughters and sons, sisters and brothers, our future generation of hope.
How can we not ask why God?
How can we not be angry, lost, and full of doubt?

God, be with each of us in this moment of loss and grief.
God, comfort and hold each parent and sister and brother in their pain.
Remind us of what You told us in Isaiah 43:1,2
"When you go through deep waters and great trouble,
I will be with you.' Amen-

Deacon Debbie

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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Our Prayers go out to the students, faculty and families of the slain students and faculty at Virginia Tech.  We pray for an end to violence in this world.
Equality and Justice Day is on May 1 in Albany.  25 Open Arms members are signed up to go.  The website is:  www.prideagenda.org
The women's softball team is looking for equipment!  If you are able to donate softballs, bats, or
mitts  please let Donna or Bess know if you have. The team is especially in need of bats.

 

Adult Sunday School for April 22 is at 7pm.  It will be an experience of Taize prayer.  Contact Lu  with questions.

 

White Water Rafting - Ray is tentatively planning the rip for Memorial Day Weekend. This will
be a tent camping weekend and we will raft on Saturday or Sunday.  Ray is figuring the whole package to cost 200.00 per person, plus gas for the drivers. He needs a non-refundable deposit by Sunday May 5th, no
exceptions unfortunately because of the hefty deposit needed for the rafting company and campground. Please let Ray know by April 19th

 

“Somewhere Over The Rainbow”  Rainbow Seniors will be hosting a Spring dance on Sat. May 5 at the Roger Robach Center, Lake Ontario Beach Park from 5:30pm to 10pm.  See or call Pete F. for ticket info.  He is in the directory.

 


 
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  Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church
  E-link April 25, 2007


 
Pastor's Reflection

Last Wednesday night, I spoke to a sociology class at Roberts Wesleyan about our families.  It was the fourth semester in a row that I had been invited to lecture at this class at Roberts.  There were about 50 students in the class and the professor advised me ahead of time that they were not good at class participation.  I did not find them so.   We had good discussion and good questions and for the first time in the four visits, there was no quoting of the clobber texts to condemn our families.  One student asked several questions about transgender issues and they seemed very interested in the discussion.  The professor was amazed at the level of their participation.  I look forward to next semester’s class.

 

Paul and I appreciated your prayers around my bone scan last Thursday.  The results showed no evidence of cancer in my bones and also showed no additional “degenerative changes” in my spine and joints.  So both of those are good results.  Thank you for your prayers.

 

We weren't in church Sunday because we paid a visit to friends and family in Boston.  On Friday night we visited with our friend, Doug, who describes himself as a member of Open Arms MCC in diaspora.  He is far away but looks forward to hearing our weekly church news.  Our friend, Donna, also in Massachusetts, also feels like Open Arms is her church.   Doug was here for my installation as pastor in 2004.  He also was with me as a missionary in Baghdad many years ago.  We visited another former Jesuit friend, Jack, and his spouse and adopted son, Christopher.  Christopher just turned 7 and is a wonderfully sociable and clearly loved child.  Another plus was that one of Christopher’s dads runs a sweet shop and café – which is where we met, of course.

 

On Saturday, we spent the whole afternoon with Lillian, a dear friend of mine who is in her 80’s.  She had spent the whole previous week preparing an incredible Lebanese meal for our visit.  Her niece told me that she never really gets excited about people visiting but was very excited about our visit.  She and her sister, Sarah, who died last year, met Paul for the first time in 2002.  There has never been a card or phone call since where they haven't asked after Paul.  We love her and had so much fun.  We ate till it hurt and then took a walk and returned to a table completely full of dessert.  And, of course, there was a care package to take home.

 

Sunday morning, we had breakfast with Doug and his wife and then went to the Public Gardens to ride the Swan Boats and feed the squirrels and pigeons.

 

We packed a lot into a few days and were pleasantly tired when we got home Sunday night.

 

And, we carried you with us.  When, as a church, we form community, rooted in God.  Our connections aren't just for Sunday mornings but are for all the hours of all the days.   Even though we were 400 miles from home, we felt our connections with you.  Thank you for being our family and for carrying us in your heart.

Rev. Jim

Deacon's Corner

Yo God,
Sometimes I feel like a slave to the cost of living.
Existing has become more and more expensive.
Gas at almost $3.00 a gallon, rent, food...continue to go up and up.
Credit card offers come in the mail daily.
Living sometimes seems as if it is only for the rich and wealthy.
Perhaps I have lost track of the difference between need and want.
Everything becomes a need, and a must have, somehow if I don't
get what I "need", it lowers my feeling of worth and self-esteem.

God, remind me what is important: family, friends, and relationships.
Remind me that this place is key to my well being.
Remind me the difference between need and want.
Remind me that You are an essential need in my life as is my church family.
Let me not forget these things....Amen

Deacon Debbie

Until next time, oremus pro invicem, (let us pray for one another)

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“Somewhere Over The Rainbow”  Rainbow Seniors will be hosting a Spring dance on Sat. May 5 at the Roger Robach Center, Lake Ontario Beach Park from 5:30pm to 10pm.  See or call Pete F. for ticket info.  He is in the directory.
Equality and Justice Day is on May 1 in Albany.  25 Open Arms members are signed up to go.  The website is:  www.prideagenda.org
The women's softball team is looking for equipment!  If you are able to donate softballs, bats, or
mitts  please let Donna or Bess know if you have. The team is especially in need of bats.

 

Adult Sunday School meets on Sunday at 9:30am.  Contact Lu with questions.

 

White Water Rafting - Ray is tentatively planning the rip for Memorial Day Weekend. This will
be a tent camping weekend and we will raft on Saturday or Sunday.  Ray is figuring the whole package to cost 200.00 per person, plus gas for the drivers. He needs a non-refundable deposit by Sunday May 5th, no
exceptions unfortunately because of the hefty deposit needed for the rafting company and campground. Please let Ray know by April 19th

 

Prayer Requests

For an end to the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan and throughout the world.

For peaceful hearts among world leaders.

For the safety of our troops in harms way.

For the leaders of our denomination, especially Rev. Elder Nancy L. Wilson and the Board of Elders and Board of Administration.

For those in our community who grieve the loss of a loved one

For those who live with cancer and those who support them

For the lonely and depressed

Thanksgiving for Anthony and David who have found the jobs they've been seeking.

For David as he prepares to move his life to Georgia

For Bill VT as he prepares to move his life to Arizona

For the planners of General and Regional conferences and gatherings.


 
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Until next time, let us pray for one another (oremus pro invicem)


 

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