HOW TO FIND A CHURCH
First, I suggest you make a list of
what you want in a church. Use the following for help.
+ Is the teaching and preaching in the church firmly based on
the whole Bible only and its truths? (2 Tim 3:16-17, 4:2)
+ Do they preach Jesus Christ and His bodily resurrection? (Lk
1:35; Is 43:10-11; Phil 2:5-11, Col 1:19, 2:3, 8-9; John 1:1, 3:16, 10:17-18,
20:28; 1 Tim 2:5; 1 Cor 15:1-4)
+ Is the music and hymns in the Sunday services based on Bible
teachings?
+ Does the church provide teachings for each member of your
family?
+ Ask to read the church's "Statement of Faith" and /or the
creeds they subscribe to. If they don't use creeds or have a Statement of Faith
(and some don't) ask to read their equivalent to these.
+ Do you believe you could go to one of the church's pastor
with a problem or personal need?
+ Do you feel at home with others in the church?
+ Are there opportunities provided to meet others in the
church?
+ Do you sense that the people are friendly and honestly
concerned about you?
+ Are there people of the right age group to provide sufficient
fellowship for each member on your family?
+ Do you see any place in which you could be used in the
church?
+ Is the church honestly interested in meeting other's needs,
both spiritually and physically.
+ Do they reach out to the near by communities with the gospel
of Jesus Christ? Do they have a strong missionary program?
+ Are they a "closed" church? Would you have difficulty
"breaking in" to a position of responsibility?
+ Is the church geographically accessible to allow you to
become as involved as you want to be?
+ It may be that not all of these questions are of equal
importance to each member of your family as you consider a church. However, a
balance of teaching, fellowship and service are necessary for your healthy
Christian growth.
+ God has a church for you. You just have to search for which
one.
+ Keep in mind that while a national denomination may clearly
be Christian and have a sound organization, some individual congregations within
this denomination may not be. This is why you must take time and apply good
judgement in selecting a local church that fits your needs. After I left
Mormonism and was regularly attending a local church, Webster Assembly of God,
it took two years of attending before I was comfortable enough to formally
become a member.
+ Some signs of churches to stay away from or to approach very
carefully. (1 Thess 5:21, 1 John 4:1, Rom 16:17-18)
- Be very concerned about any church that applies
continuing pressure to become a member.
- As you
search keep in mind that some "churches" that claim to be Christian really are
not. There are too many that fall into this category to give a complete list.
Two major one I know of are the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
(the Mormons) and The Watchtower Society (the Jehovah's Witnesses). There are
many more, some very large, as the Mormons, some as small as one
congregation.
- Do they want to know too many details
about your personal life? Do they try to tell you how to handle these details?
In other words, are they telling you how to run every part of your
life?
- Do they teach the historical Trinitarian
concept of God? Most counterfeit Christian churches do not.
- Do they claim to be the only church/denomination that has the
"truth," the only way to heaven? A true Christian church will not make such a
claim.
- Do they recognize the baptisms by other
sound Christian churches/denominations? Many counterfeit Christian churches
will not.
- Be careful of terminology. Some groups,
like the Mormons, use Christian terms, but have redefined the words to fit
their non-Christian beliefs and teachings.
- Is the
church driven by the experiential (feelings & emotions in the place of the
Bible), seeking after signs, casting out of demons?
-
Do they encourage unusual emotional demonstrations and out-bursts by
individuals or groups in the their services. This would include "holy
laughter," fainting, yelling, barking, rolling around or other unusual verbal
or body motions.
- Do they say only one translation
of the Bible (the King James for one example) is the only one acceptable? Do
they say that any other translation is unacceptable and not from God and those
that use it are lost?
- Christian churches have
historically held their worship services on Sunday. Examine very carefully
those that don't.
+ Speak to your neighbors, people at
work and use your past experience to find some candidate congregations. The
yellow pages in your phone book can also help. Also, just driving around your
community might be a good start. Visit and try out several congregations. Don't
rush to join.
+ When you interview the pastor of a church you are interested
in order to get answers to the above questions, also ask the following. As you
discuss these issues look for how the Bible is used to support what is
said.
- What is your testimony about Jesus Christ?
- Can a person be a pastor, or in other leadership
positions, in this church and be involved in homosexuality or
adultery or fornication or divorce or drunkenness or other public sins ? (1
Thess 5:22)
- What are the reasons that would
cause a pastor, or others in top leadership, to lose their church job?
- What do you think of the Bible?
- Do you see the Bible as the only prime source of reliable
information about the Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit, and the plan of
salvation?
- How can we spend eternity in
heaven with Jesus Christ? (Rom 10:9-11; John 3:16, 5:24; Eph 2:8-9)
- What is the role of good works in our salvation?
(Eph 2:10; Phil 2:13; James 2:17-26)
- What is
the gospel? (see 1 Cor 15:1-4) Be very careful of anything but a simple
answer.
- Faith in Jesus Christ, His death, burial
and resurrection.
You may never find
the "perfect" church, but you can come close. The above may help you to search
out the critical salvation issues. You need to do your part by using a good
translation of the Bible as your standard, your "yardstick," to help you
evaluate a church at the start and with on-going evaluations.
John Farkas, Berean Christian Ministries, P.O. Box 1091,
Webster, NY 14580
E-mail:
bcmmin@frontiernet.net Web pages: Mormonism:
http://www.frontiernet.net/~bcmmin
Jehovah's
Witnesses: http://www.frontiernet.net/~bcmmin/jwstd.htm
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